That is just the way I am!

You can overcome accidents, divorces and even disease, it is not easy of course and will take time.

But often you can come out on the other side, stronger and wiser than before. But I have noticed, also in my own case, that after some time you will see yourself in your old patterns you where in before your “accident”. Your old thought patterns will sneak up on you, especially the thought about yourself. “I am not enough, I can’t do this, I don’t have enough money, I don’t deserve this…..”

I write this because I was together with a fantastic coach today and we talked a little about giving yourself permission to be happy and have success.. I thought that I have learned so much, since my accident in USA and I surely have, but there are apparently still unsolved riddles from my childhood.

There is a lot of habits and thought patters hidden deeply inside of us, most of which we never really look at and simply shrug our shoulders at, “well that is just the way I am”. Even the stuff that no longer help us in any way shape or form, but because it is the only way we know, we are to comfortable to really try and change anything about them. This results in us making the same mistakes, over and over again.

What I am trying to say here, is that maybe it is time to look deeper and really try to figure out, why we constantly trip over our selves again and again. For me this means that it is about time I start looking at my fear of getting success and stop being afraid of making money.

So my affirmation for the next couple of months most surely must be: “I deserve success”.

I would love to know thought about the same stuff before and if yes, what are your challenges lately and what are you going to do about them?

Big hugs

Nicole 😘🙏🌸